I swear, what else can happen to me? My life is like a series of eastenders or something just as horrific and I thought it would wear off by now. Yesterday I spent a lovely afternoon at Sofa Guy’s parents enjoying a BBQ with his parents, brother, sister in law plus kids. I always feel really at home there even though I have only been officially twice for a meal. Anyway the guys were playing boules on the lawn (sounds so very English!) and I was sat chatting with Sofa Guy’s mum and sister in law. I can’t remember how the conversation went but basically I was saying I was older than Sofa Guy. His sister in law looked confused and asked how old I was.. to which I replied 27. She then hit me with a bombshell. Sofa Guy is 30 next month!
How can someone have lied to me for the past 8 months about being 5 years younger? Why would someone lie to me about that? I didn’t know whether to cry or laugh, and Sofa guy’s mum was trying to justify things saying that he doesn’t want to be 30, and that he’s like peter pan. more like fucking pinocchio!
He could tell something was up and kept looking over to me and asking if I was okay. I shook my head. How was I supposed to handle this? What could I say? The age itself didn’t bother me one bit since it means that he is actually 3 years older than me which I think is nice. But there are 5 years of his life that he hasn’t really accounted for.. and if he is 30 next month, he should know better than to treat me like this and act a little more responsibly. Of course, this could work in my favour maybe it is time he wants to settle down? I’m also the ONLY girl he has ever taken home. How weird is that?
I am so scared right now that I have managed to bag myself a commitment phobe, a lier and a cheat. I asked him if there was anything else that I didn’t know or that wasn’t true to just tell me right there and then. I also asked if he had ever cheated on me and he said no. Now I need to stop treating him like a kid, and he needs to start taking some responsible action towards life and our relationship.
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